Moriarty-delaFuente Family Blog

Celebrating the 4th

2011-07-14T20:25:00.001-07:00

This year we spent the 4th of July at home. Really we didn't need to go anywhere, since our neighbors put on a great fireworks show. Huge, spectacular fireworks. We just pulled up some chairs at the end of the driveway and enjoyed.

The only meltdown that was had was when Talya's above pictured balloon floated away. Luckily she recovered quickly and watched the colorful explosions. Anyone who knows Talya would say that it is no surprise that her favorites were the pink ones.

Happenings

2011-07-11T20:35:00.000-07:00

To be honest, I am a bit reluctant to post on this blog due to the inherent obligation I will feel to maintain it. Especially since I am not sure I can live up to the obligation. There are so many great happenings in our lives right now that I just can't keep the stories and pictures to myself. Plus it will make my mommy happy and that is always worth the risk. :)

Since I have too much to share for just one post, I will leave you with some photos of my littles. They just don't stop getting cuter!

(Keep your fingers crossed that another year doesn't pass before the next post. So I don't have to wither in shame...)

Lets Go Orioles

2010-05-11T14:16:00.001-07:00

One of the things I love about our home is that it is walking distance from Matthew's school and the Mt. Tabor Little League field. This was the first year Matthew was able to play baseball due to age requirements and he loves it. He has been practicing with Carlos and I and sleeping with his gloves under his mattress.

His team, the Orioles, have won all their games and Matty has several hits, runs, and RBI's. It has been a joy to watch his interest in baseball develop. I can definitely see both Carlos' and my competitive spirits in Matthew.

Playdate

2010-04-18T17:07:00.000-07:00

Matthew had a play date with his friend Solomon last week. Actually, it wasn't a play date. It was two friends, "just hanging out." Because play dates are for babies. At least that is what Matthew told me while reminding me that he is almost six years old.

My boy has outgrown the term play date. I am not sure how I feel about that.

Sweet voice in the morning

2010-04-13T14:09:00.000-07:00

I am posting this mini-video so you can hear Talya's sweet little voice. Not because I want you to see what I look like before 7am. Definitely not that.

Its pretty shaky because I was taping myself. At the end, when you are seeing the floor, Talya was holding the camera up to her ear like a phone.

Egg-citing Easter

2010-04-05T14:38:00.000-07:00

Easter 2010 was quite lovely. Carlos' mom Marianne has been in town so we were able to share the day with her. Portland has been very rainy, windy, and cold as of late, so early Easter morning we decided to take advantage of the fact that it was dry outside and have our egg hunt.

Natalya took Matthew's cues and frantically raced around the front yard in search of hidden eggs. She did awesome, finding three eggs. She would find an egg, exclaim "a chicken," put it in her basket, then take it out to re-find it. It was pretty cute.

Matthew did a good job of letting Talya find the obvious eggs and really had to search for the rest. He was climbing trees, sliding under cars, and generally dashing around like a lunatic. In the end of it all, both Matty and Talya had fun and were delighted with the loot.

The rest of the day was spent relaxing, enjoying each others' company, and preparing and eating a delicious meal. He had a spiral ham, mashed sweet potatoes, and grilled asparagus. Yummy. After we stuffed ourselves, we watched "Sherlock Holmes" and snuggled on the couch. Talk about the perfect day.

Splashing in the Sprinkler

2010-03-25T16:26:00.001-07:00

Yes, they really did run through the sprinklers when it was only 68 degrees outside. I should add that it was a gorgeous 68.

I love the firsts of spring/summer. The first time Carlos has to mow the lawn. The first time I can wear a dress or skirt without tights. The first flowers blooming. And, naturally, the first tromp through the sprinklers. (Not to mention the gorgeous photos made possible by better and more natural light.)

To my fellow bloggers reading this, I have to tell you about Picnik, the web-based application that I used to create this collage. I heard about it during an e-course that I took recently and this was my first time using it. And boy was it EASY, FAST and FREE. I created my account, uploaded these photos, and created the collage in under 15 minutes. I will definitely be using Picnik over Picasa from now on. Check it out.

Please note, that I used the free version but there is an upgrade available, for $24.95 per year. I am considering upgrading because I think the price is reasonable and I've heard great things about it.

They're crafty

2010-03-22T21:40:00.001-07:00

I love watching Matthew and Talya create. Children are spontaneous and free in their art, something that adult artists have to strive for. It is obvious that the process is more important to them than the product. I try to steer clear of my adult programming while they are crafting, not allowing myself to worry about the mess I'll have to clean up. Yes, even when Talya is clapping her paint-covered hands together, splashing paint in places yet to be discovered.

love note

2010-03-19T14:04:00.001-07:00

On the 26th of April, Carlos and I will have been together for nine years. Thankfully, I love him more and more as time goes by. To avoid becoming complacent in our relationship, I sneak in love notes here and there, to surprise him and remind him that he's my main squeeze. This one will greet him when he returns home from work.

2010-03-17T22:33:00.000-07:00

Often I wish I could ask her what she is thinking. A part of her personality it very intense and contemplative. It is curious to watch and daydream about what she is focusing on and what she thinks about. I also wonder how much she will reveal once she is able to communicate freely. I see her maintaining a degree of mystery and reserve throughout her life.

Writing this makes me question my idiosyncrasies as a child, what traits my mom identified in me when I was young and how she thought they would translate as I grew into adulthood.

I was recently reading about a father who keeps what he calls a "Legacy Letter." Daily, he writes a quick something regarding whatever is on his mind or currently going on in their lives. What prompted him to start the log was the fact that his parents didn't remember specifics when he became interested in knowing what life was like, and what he was like, when he was a child. The log was his solution to the possibility that he may forget the details eventually.

What a brilliant (and dedicated) idea. And what a treasure it will be to that kid, when he receives it.

rock star

2010-03-16T13:46:00.000-07:00

First Signs of Spring

2010-02-24T10:34:00.000-08:00

The kids enjoyed the sunny weather we had recently. I got them outside in hopes that the sunshine would dispel their cabin-fever.

I have been making some formatting changes to this blog, so if the layout looks wonky it is because I am making some adjustments. Hoping to beautify my bloggy blog a bit!

On the hunt - Chore Board

2010-01-26T22:03:00.000-08:00

Like me, Matthew lives in the visual realm. He likes to see what he needs to do and what he has already done. Because of this I am looking for a chore board or chore check list to keep a visual record of his to-do's and done's.

I first saw this one at a local toy shop. Loving that this version is very comprehensive and the dry erase bottom section would come in handy. However, it looks a little too "day-care center" for me. Is it vain to expect the chore board have a certain aesthetic, one that I would not shudder at seeing on my wall? I think not. :) Particularly since I need it to be in a central location, the kitchen, to use it properly.

So my search continued. Etsy has several options, a bit more suited to my tastes.

This is from soapstarmom who offers additional chore cards as well.

AbbiesHouse is another great option, also offering additional chore magnets.

And these are only a few of the choices out there. Yet, all in all, I have not found THE ONE. I'm thinking this calls for a craft project....

Perideau Designs

2010-01-14T13:50:00.000-08:00

Lucky me! I won a personalized canvas print by Perideau Designs from a giveaway I entered on Bliss, authored by the delightful Mrs. French.

Bridgett, of Perideau Designs, has been so gracious during the personalization process and I am just delighted to be the winner. I requested mine in the color "Pool" which is a dazzling pale teal, with Natalya's name on it. Won't it look delicious in her room!?! Me thinks so.

Please visit her blog and etsy shop to check out all the lovelies she has to offer and please let her know that I sent you. Her stationary is gorgeous. On my wish list, the "A New Key" moving announcements, since we are moving soon. Details on that to come...

My days are bright because I have her

2010-01-08T10:35:00.000-08:00

Christmas 2009 continued

2010-01-06T16:34:00.000-08:00

Truly, this was one of the best Christmas' I have ever had. Surrounded by family and love. There is no better a gift.

Warmest Holiday Wishes

2009-12-27T21:41:00.001-08:00

I was so blessed to be surrounded with loved family during Christmas. It was beyond special. More photos and their stories soon....

Few Things Better

2009-12-09T12:41:00.000-08:00

When I was pregnant with Natalya, Matthew's day care provider said one of the greatest joys of being a parent of two children is witnessing the love they have for each other. I was touched by the sincerity of her words, feeling their truth, believing with certainty. Now I know from experience that there are few things better.

Pour it all in

2009-12-08T16:54:00.000-08:00

Carlos: How much bubble bath did you use?

Me: The rest of the bottle.

Carlos: Why?

Me: Look at them smiling.

Carlos: {unconvinced expression}

Me: Sometimes you gotta pour it all in.

Did this happen a month ago? Really?

2009-12-06T11:54:00.000-08:00

This year for Halloween I had Ben 10 (a cartoon network character) and Wondergirl. Matthew just loves Halloween. We decorated the house at the beginning of October and counted down to the day. Talya wasn't happy unless she had her foot inside the plastic pumpkin and once we took pictures of her in her costume she started tugging at it, saying, "All done." It goes without saying that she wasn't nearly as enthusiastic.

My 2nd Birthday, by Talya

2009-12-03T16:25:00.000-08:00

My second birthday. I love anything that starts with "my" but an entire day in my honor really takes the cake. I even had a pin that said "Birthday Princess." And a princess I was. My Great Grandma Sam, Gramma Mo, and Auntie Jenni were there, along with my mommy, dad, and brother of course.

First, I opened my presents. There were so many; it was a bit overwhelming. I hardly knew where to look or what to grab.

I got a book that was so cool I stopped unwrapping to read it. I showed everyone all the cool pictures and let them hear all the words I know. And I know a lot of words. I'm two now... remember!?!

Daddy and Matthew started helping me open presents. I guess they wanted to speed things up. I didn't care because I was checking out my new sneakers. I am a shoe girl after all. (hint, hint, Santa. size 6)

The cards I got were just as interesting as the presents. They are like mini books. Even my brother Matthew gave me a card that he signed himself. He wrote, "I love sister," too.

Soon I was covered in presents. Fabulous things that everyone put so much thought into.

Lastly, they sang me Happy Birthday and we had cake. And boy was it yummy. I got quite a sugar high because my mommy doesn't let me have many sweets. Don't tell, but my brother and I kept putting our fingers in the frosting when we thought no one was looking. :)

And when all of the festivities were over, I sat in that same chair for over an hour checking out all of my cool stuff. Thanks to everyone who helped me celebrate my 2nd birthday. By the looks of my smile, you can see it was perfect.

high entertainment value

2009-11-22T16:29:00.000-08:00

As her Nana says, Talya has high entertainment value. :)

introducing...

2009-10-28T12:00:00.000-07:00

our newest addition to the Delafuente family - Buddy.

He is 4 month old, pure-bred, yellow lab and is ginormous. He weighs in at over 70 pounds and still has plenty of skin to grow in to.

I had been looking for another dog at the Humane Society for almost a year now, but never settled on anything. However, fate interceded. Buddy's original owner bought the dog for their three young boys and quickly found out that for one, the boys were not interested in taking care of a puppy, and two, that he was going to be a large dog by the time he reached adulthood. So, they gave the pup to our neighbor. Unfortunately for Buddy, our neighbor has an older, female dog who was not interested in having a playmate. Especially not a rambunctious puppy. Last Sunday, as Carlos and Matthew were walking home from the barber shop, the neighbor asked Carlos if we were interested in getting a second dog, he came home with them, and everyone fell in love at first sight.

Buddy has a great personality and instantly fit right in. He is exuberant, but at the same time is very cuddly and loving. He follows me around the house and lays down where ever I am, keeping me company. He is gentle with the kids and Max loves having someone to romp around with. Honestly, I couldn't have designed a dog that would gel with our family as well.

The Oregon Humane Society has a campaign running called End Petlessness that I absolutely adore. The campaign focuses on the positive impact that pets have on their owners. I don't think anyone can deny that having an animal puts a smile on your face on a daily basis. So lets all do our part to end petlessness.

health and heart.

2009-09-29T13:31:00.000-07:00

I have had the most unpleasant cold for the past week so I haven't been taking many pictures. My days are filled with hot tea, Airbourne, spending all day in my pj's, and rest, rest, resting. Thankfully, I have an awesome man. Carlos has been taking care of the kids, cooking, and generally picking up my slack while I try to recover.

So since I don't have any new photos of my babies, I thought I'd share a heart-shaped leaf that I found at my mom's house during my most recent visit.

Send me get well mojo.

laurelhurst park

2009-09-25T16:05:00.001-07:00

a few weekends ago we went to laurelhurst park. it is a ginormous, and beautiful park. really, we couldn't get over how big is it. despite the flurry of activity going on in all the park's nooks and crannies, the sense of calm was undeniable. we spent four hours there, playing on the play structures, feeding the ducks, watching a juggling class. as you can see from the photo, matthew accidentally kicked his shoes into the pond. we had to wait for it to float downstream before i could grab it out. i've washed that shoe twice already and still every time he wears it his feet smell like pond scum at the end of the day. (yuck!)

i find that it is so easy to fall into routine in life. the same parks. same restaurants. same everything. i have to admit that there is still so much of portland that we haven't explored. yet when we do try new places, break through habit and routine, it is so rewarding. so here's to uncharted territory and new adventures.

sissy. a list.

2009-09-19T16:58:00.000-07:00

Talya:

Loves trying new words. She mimics everything Carlos, Matthew, or I say. Sometimes it is understandable. Other times, not so much. But I love that she tries.
Is a great dancer. She hears a beat and immediately goes to the living room to do her bob-and-turn dancing. It's adorable.
Cries every night before bed. Its the way she winds down. I would be worried if she fell asleep any other way.
Has just started wearing 2T clothing. I call her my "2T guppy."
Has a starfish shaped belly button. She loves grabbing peoples fingers and rubbing them on her starfish.
Is very independent and doesn't like toys. She would much rather putter around the house, investigating and playing with household things like paperwork, jewelry, and toothbrushes.
Randomly sings the "Bob, the Builder" theme song. Her favorite part is "yes we can."
Does not like people who violate her personal space. Matthew is the biggest culprit. She responds with violence.
Is a really happy girl. I am so lucky that both of my kids are the happy kind. Natalya has high entertainment value.
Loves telling Matthew to watch out. She says it so clearly. And then laughs.

celebrate summer's last days

2009-09-18T11:43:00.001-07:00

By the end of summer we know the ice cream man on a first name basis. John. He comes by our house at 3:20. or so. Yesterday, John told Matthew that he wouldn't be coming around as much because summer is almost over. I didn't think Matthew understood what he was saying. That is until he plopped down on the grass (that brown stuff in the photos) and said, "Well I'm really going to enjoy this snow cone then."

kindergarden. a beginning.

2009-09-15T13:04:00.001-07:00

I can hardly believe that my boy started kindergarden last Friday. The thirteen year adventure that is primary education. We were all so excited and prepared that not a single tear was shed. His first day went so smoothly and better-than-expected, that he was asking when he got to go back the entire weekend.

Since we live 3/4 of a block away (how cool is that!?! It's super easy and quick- plus, I always wanted to live right by school.) Matthew rides his bike while I walk Talya in the stroller. His teacher is named Mrs. Brewer and the class has 24 students. Harrison Park School. He goes from 8:40am to 3:00pm.

My little guy!

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In other news, Carlos started his externship this Monday that will last six weeks. He is at a Legacy Hospital clinic on the Good Samaritan campus in downtown Portland. Because he is externing for such a large hospital system, he should gain useful experience and have a lot of potential for hire once the externship is complete. I cannot believe how fast his schooling flew by. We are all so proud of him for finishing with a 4.0 gpa.

Also, I intend to return to posting here more regularly. This summer was crazy fun and busy but I am embracing the added structure from having Matthew is school all day and Carlos working at his extern. I am still working at the nightclub but will be able to catch up on sleep while Talya is napping during the day, leaving me time to be more than half-awake, to tend to things that I enjoy, like this blog.

Look forward to more photos and stories of our summer and beyond. This is an exciting time for my family!

2009-07-05T12:40:00.000-07:00

supermodel

2009-06-30T16:25:00.000-07:00

Every parent thinks their child is the most beautiful. Myself included. But no person in their right mind would argue that the kid in this photo is anything less than striking. And yes, just like every parent, I brag shamelessly. :)

the Teaching Voice

2009-06-17T13:56:00.000-07:00

I was prepared to write an eloquent ;) story about how Matthew used his Teaching Voice to instruct Talya on how to ride a trike. However, Matthew just informed me that I better "change Sissy's butt before she stinks up the whole dang house" and I suppose that takes precedence over blogging. So instead I'll keep this brief.....

I have the best, cutest, most talented kids in the entire universe and I am grateful that they love each other! (even when one has a stinky butt!)

ps. Erin- Do you have Photoshop? If so I know of a site to get free actions. I edited these photos in one click... so easy. Just google "Totally Rad Actions"

Matthew's 5th Birthday Party

2009-06-11T09:44:00.000-07:00

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What a fabulous birthday party! The kids had fun, the parents had fun, even Carlos and I enjoyed ourselves.

This year's party was different in that Matthew invited his friends from school and our neighborhood, rather than having family members and family friends as guests. He took on the role of host without hesitation, showing his buddies around our home and yard. I was thrilled to hear him take such pride in his surroundings and home-life. And since he was so super-duper excited about the party beforehand, I was surprised that he took so much interest in making sure that his friends had a good time as well.

My favorite part was the pinata... seeing the kids bashing at it with such passion and determination was hilarious.

After everyone left, Matthew hugged Carlos and I and said, "that was the best party ever. we should do the same thing next year." Mission accomplished.

Natalya in the Front Yard Garden

2009-06-10T09:10:00.000-07:00

Talya's vocabulary now includes "flower" and "tree." She gets really excited at every opportunity to use her latest words.

My future's so bright, I gotta wear shades

2009-05-04T16:59:00.000-07:00

Where is that line from? - "my future's so bright, I gotta wear shades." A song? I remember it said many times in my childhood. From my parents and Uncle Conan. Just thinking about it makes me smile. So when Sissy was rockin' her shades, that phrase was the first thing that entered my mind.

Usually she immediately rips her sunglasses off, but this time Talya embraced them. Actually, I think she felt like a superstar! She be-bopped around eating ice and enjoying the sunshine, looking darling as usual. It is safe to say... her future's so bright, she's gotta wear shades!"

Master Gardener's Plant Sale

2009-04-30T15:04:00.000-07:00

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While in Tacoma this past weekend, I went with Momma Mo to the Washington State University Master Gardener's Plant Sale. It was a feast for the eyes with beautiful, locally grown plants sold by the original growers. An entire room was dedicated to tomato plants complete with free educational material and helpful attendants. It was a great way to start the day. I left with two roma tomato plants, one sungold tomato plant, three Tradescantia zebrina, aka "Wandering Jew," and a bunch of gardening know-how that I didn't walk in with.

Hope this collage (of only a fraction of the plants I saw) inspires you to get outside and create your dream garden.

(and yes, I totally copied-and-pasted this post from my other blog. Don't judge me.)

So much improvement

2009-04-29T12:11:00.000-07:00

Each Monday in preschool, Matthew does a book for a letter in the alphabet. He was so excited to complete "z," knowing that meant he was ever so close to kindergarten. Throughout the alphabet it has been a delight to watch his writing improve. I am so proud of him and know that his confidence will be to his advantage this September, when he starts at Binsmead Elementary.

Practicing in Photoshop

2009-04-23T16:05:00.001-07:00

Although I find Photoshop extremely intimidating, the results can be breathtaking. I am obsessed with color tinting. A few more hours of practice (like hundreds) and I'll be able to take my photos to the next level.

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Max looks so regal. Such a handsome puppy!

Congrats Riggs Family

2009-04-20T18:49:00.000-07:00

I wanted everyone to know that Erin delivered her baby boy, Ashton, safely and at full-term, on April 16th. She is now the proud mother of two. I am delighted that both Mom and Baby are happy and healthy and can't wait to meet the little guy. Loves to the (expanded) Riggs Family.

You can find the Riggs Family Blog at the address below. Please leave a comment congratulating them if you visit.

http://erinandashley.blogspot.com/2009/04/welcome.html

can't take my eyes away, even for a second

2009-04-20T18:45:00.000-07:00

Natalya found a box that had styrofoam in it and found unending pleasure in ripping it apart. She was covered in the stuff. However, it could have been worse. Matthew thought she "got into the glue." Ahhh... what a life.

Easter

2009-04-17T13:30:00.001-07:00

We had a quiet Easter this year. No big meal, no company, no trip to Tacoma. It was a a nice kind of quiet though.

Its a step in the right direction

2009-04-15T13:45:00.000-07:00

Whenever Carlos refers to the kids as mine, "come see what YOUR daughter is doing," I know something's up. Yes, Talya climbed into the toilet. Look at how delighted she is with herself! When I pulled her out and removed her soaking pants and socks, I realized that she pooped in her diaper. It's a step.... :)

get the camera

2009-04-10T16:58:00.000-07:00

Carlos was outside with the kids while I prepared dinner. He came to the kitchen window and yelled, "Babe, get the camera." Naturally, I thought one of the kids was doing something cute so without questioning I grabbed the camera and ran outside. He was standing near the curb in front of our house pointing to a twenty dollar bill laying on the ground. "You can put this on your blog, " he said. Ah yes, I have brought him to the dark side. :)

Wishing you find a homeless $20 this weekend too!

occluded fallopian tubes

2009-04-09T20:00:00.000-07:00

This past Monday, after a visit to Epic Imaging, I found out that my fallopian tubes are occluded. Resulting from the Essure procedure that I had in December 2008, I am sterile. I highly recommend it to any woman looking for permanent birth control. The procedure was painless, out-patient, and much less invasive than tubal ligation. My only stipulation would be to research a OBGYN that has performed the Essure procedure often, as it is a fairly new option. Visit http://www.essure.com/ for tons of helpful information. Also, feel free to email me with any questions.

I am so grateful for my children. They complete my life in the most amazing way. But I am now done having babies. Carlos and I have moved on to the "watching them grow" stage of life and are enjoying every step and every minute of this magical journey.

cherry blossoms

2009-04-06T20:15:00.000-07:00

The past two days have been glorious. We spent most of the day outside, tending the garden, and our souls.

visual stimulation

2009-04-04T17:37:00.001-07:00

when i was little, magazines and catalogs could keep me occupied for hours. turns out Natalya likes the visual stimulation as well. and btw- i am debating cutting her bangs. well, going somewhere to have someone else do it. what do you think?

running water attacks

2009-04-04T17:32:00.000-07:00

After sticking her head under the running water Talya looked at me like, "did you see what that thing just did to me?"

"mom, your dinner's on fire"

2009-04-03T13:56:00.000-07:00

Matthew: "Mom, your dinner's on fire."

Me: *bolt from bathroom to kitchen*

Matthew: "See all that smoke. It's a fire."

Me: *gasp of relief followed by explanation of steam and clarification that yes steam can burn you but doesn't mean it's a fire*

friendly faces

2009-04-02T17:53:00.001-07:00

Matthew and I discovered these friendly faces on our evening walk. Each one was at a different residence. Noticing them as we walked by was such a great surprise!

I think they are the cutest thing and had to find out where to buy them. Turns out Target carries them online and Terry's Village has one that is a bird feeder with glow-in-the-dark eyes. I'm going with the bird feeder.

The Evolution of a Blog

2009-03-27T17:02:00.000-07:00

My 100^th post! Feels like something to celebrate. (Strawberry Shortcake should do the trick!) I believe some reflection is in order as well.

My first post held hope of preserving our family’s memories and was an attempt to somehow shorten the mileage between us and our relatives. I wanted Carlos’ mom and my mom to participate in the daily activities of their grandchildren as much as the distance between us would allow.

In these first posts I told stories of Matthew learning to ride a bicycle sans training wheels, Natalya’s first bites of rice cereal, and anything else that would portray what my life looked life as a mother of two young children. I created a digital scrapbook of sorts, accessible to relatives and friends with a few quick keystrokes.

As I grow and evolve as a mother and keeper of memories, this blog evolves as well. The kids are growing up at unflinching speed. Matthew, almost five years old, begins kindergarten in September. Natalya is surpassing the baby milestones with each passing day. I cannot help myself from feeling like everything is happening too quickly. Feeling like I must slow life down or at least push the pause button several times a day and relish in the moment.

I photograph the parts in our day that cause me to pause momentarily, grateful for the small moments that add up to a lifetime. This is my meager attempt to be present with all I have now, all I am now, and all I love now. I post them to remember the small moments, the beautifully mundane. These are the stories that I want to share.

Yes, the big accomplishments and big occasions are important. You only start walking once, there is only one first day of preschool, and birthdays only happen once a year. These turning points do not go unnoticed. However, they don’t reflect the love and joy we experience daily as a family. The littlest things make my heart skip a beat. They best illustrate how lucky I am. They are my story.

On a Lazy Sunday

2009-03-23T09:33:00.000-07:00

Matthew identifies each and every letter and number that we cross paths with. Him and I took a long walk and plenty of opportunities presented themselves.

I suppose it is time to put the strap lock back on the fridge. She looks so proud of herself. :)

Highest Honors

2009-03-22T07:48:00.001-07:00

The kids and I are so proud of daddy. A 4.0 gpa in his x-ray technician program. He's smart AND intoxicatingly handsome!

shadow play

2009-03-20T09:20:00.000-07:00

sissy concentrated intently, trying to figure out what was following her around.

Peace and a Contagious Smile

2009-03-19T12:48:00.000-07:00

peace. matthew's newest favorite way to pose for a photo. really stinkin' cute.

cheerleader baby is what matthew calls talya when i put her hair in pig tails. loo-loo's, we call them. to me, she looks older and older each time i post a photo of her here. sweeter as well.

2009-03-16T21:32:00.000-07:00

she chattered as the wind whipped through her hair.

The Men in my Life

2009-03-15T18:46:00.001-07:00

My three favorite boys... life is good.

2009-03-10T19:44:00.000-07:00

I am still fighting a terrible cold that is leaving me exhausted and achy. Lucky for me I have these two beautiful kids.

They say love and laughter are the best medicine. I have mounds of each.

One Day, Two Trips to the Park

2009-03-03T19:19:00.000-08:00

Yesterday was stunning in Portland. So gorgeous that we made two trips to the park. It was 58 degrees and the sunshine created friends out of strangers and smiles out of frowns. Every time we get a day like this one I think, "This is why I live in the Pacific Northwest. No place compares to the beauty found here." (Have I said this before. Probably. I think it all the time.)

Talya loves being outside. Last spring and summer she was so little and couldn't do much when we were outside. Now, though, she loves swinging, sitting in the grass and feeling its tickle, and trying to climb up the slide. She even tries pushing the screen door open at the smell of a sunny afternoon.

We all know how Matthew loves being outdoors. Heck - he doesn't even mind if it's raining. I can't keep him cooped up for long before symptoms of stir-crazy set in. And that is bad for all of us. :)

A special note regarding the top photo of Matthew: To most, Matthew's smile probably looks forced and inauthentic. But I know the truth. This is the "I love you, Mommy" smile. The smile that lets me know that my son is proud of himself, glad to be who he is. A smile that says he knows that I love him to the moon. I cherish these smiles. They make me feel like the luckiest person on the planet.

What do you see?

2009-02-25T20:54:00.000-08:00

OK - so I am trying to be a bit mysterious with this. Yes, obviously it is a stack of sweaters. It's $15 dollars worth of sweaters that I bought at the Goodwill, to be exact.

So what would you do with a stack of second-hand sweaters and a sewing machine?

I will answer this question in tomorrows post. But until then, I want to know what you would do. Seriously.

Permission: Granted

2009-02-23T17:18:00.000-08:00

Come for a visit at my art blog to see my latest mixed-media painting in its' entirety. I'll give you a peek here, but you'll have to link on over to see the whole enchilada. :)

And leave a comment while you are there. You know how much I love comments... :)

'round, 'round, get around, i get around

2009-02-22T19:57:00.000-08:00

Talya's world has opened up now that she is walking. Apparently Carlos and I have consistently expressed how excited we are that she has conquered walking because she frequently stops and claps for herself, looking around with the expression, "Did you guys see that!?!"

Preschool Photos are In

2009-02-21T13:53:00.001-08:00

Preschool photos have arrived and I must say that my little guy looks dashing. I have to admit - when Teacher John passed out the picture envelopes I was a little nervous about what I might see inside. Not to say that Matthew isn't the cutest thing going... but we have all had bad school photos. I certainly have.

So I was pleasantly surprised to see that they are perfect.

What a big person he is becoming. School pictures are a big deal for a mom. It makes me remember to cherish every moment as it goes so fast.

Have you stopped and counted your blessings today? What helps remind you to cherish every moment?

Do you see what I see?

2009-02-21T07:19:00.000-08:00

I don't see any posts on my blog unless I click on a specific post in the archives. If anyone has this same problem please let me know so I can get it figured out. Thanks!

Meagan's Birthday Present

2009-02-21T07:08:00.001-08:00

I have been chomping at the bit, wanting to share the birthday present I made for Meagan. I didn't want to post anything about it until I heard from her that she received it. Well... still no word and I just can't wait any longer Megs.

This was my first mixed-media painting ever and I am so happy with how it came out. What fun it was to rummage through old ephemera to find background material to collage with. The photo is from a school dance (as if you can't tell), there is a postcard that Meg sent to my dad in 1995, and a page from my 7th grade journal for Mrs. Norton's class that talks about Chris G. and I sending Meagan balloons for her birthday. The bottom of the journal page says "Happy Birthday Meagan" How perfect is that!?!

I am hoping that this piece leads me to more mixed-media painting because it was so much fun.

You can find the detailed post here, on my art blog.

Sun-soaked Soul

2009-02-19T13:27:00.001-08:00

Yesterday's sunshine nourished by soul.

Signs of spring brightened my disposition.

I soaked it in until my heart was saturated with the beauty of it all.

Overflowing.

Two little monkeys jumping on the bed

2009-02-19T13:13:00.001-08:00

Luckily no one fell off and bumped their heads!

I'm obsessed with taking photos of feet right now...

The Rain Can't Stop Us

2009-02-17T20:58:00.000-08:00

Some days you are urged to forget the weather and follow your spontaneous inspiration.

"Anyone who says sunshine brings happiness has never danced in the rain. "

anonymous

Even cute liquified

2009-02-15T17:39:00.000-08:00

I followed a link from jennlui to fun site that manipulates photographs called Befunky. There are so many fun things to try... I have got to go play...

http://www.befunky.com/photoApps.php?from=direct#imageURL=http://befunkyanonymous.s3.amazonaws.com/a12a8bbcfdec27aa145a35e017303be91234748372_4647.jpg&from=direct

Happy Valentines Day

2009-02-14T16:11:00.001-08:00

I was showered with love today.

Flowers, chocolates, and handmade cards from my hubster and kids

Flowers and a card from my mommy

Love and support from my Artist's Way group (and more to come tonight!)

And a heart in the foam of my coffee from the Universe

Matthew's BFF, Aden

2009-02-14T15:04:00.000-08:00

Matthew found an instant friend at preschool named Aden. His teacher said that they were friends the minute class started. Their most recent play date was at SkateWorld, Matthew's first time roller skating. The setting was perfect as it was "toddler skate" so everyone there was five years old and under. Plus they had a mini-lesson, games, and prizes.

Notice in the second and third photo that Matthew is crossing his fingers. I think that he's hoping he doesn't fall.

Next, Matthew wants to have a sleep-over at Adens. I am more nervous about it than he is, I think. He is growing up so fast. Sleep-overs, a BFF, the roller skating rink.... I'm not sure I'm ready for all this!

B-Boy

2009-02-10T17:20:00.000-08:00

With Carlos coaching the 8th grade basketball team, Matthew has a renewed interest in basketball. I suppose it also helps that the weather was tolerable. Matthew consistently impresses me with his motor skills. He is only four years old after all. He can actually dribble and handle the ball effectively. It is such a pleasure to watch him practice and improve.

Notice in the second photo both Carlos and Matthew are sticking their chins out. I've always wondered where Matthew got that from. Like father, like son. It is amazing how many idiosyncrasies we inherit from our parents.

Meagan and Erin - Do you remember a song that goes, "B-boys. I've been looking for your *** since a quarter past. Hot beans and butter baby come and get your supper....." I associate it with you Erin. Do you guys remember this or am I crazy? That was playing in my head as I uploaded these pics!?!

Snow and One-liners

2009-02-10T17:09:00.000-08:00

It has been a wacky winter. Matthew asked why it was snowing so I told him that God knew he would like it. He replied, "Oh, cool. That was nice of her." Her. I like that. :)

While we were playing outside the mailman came. Matthew ran up to see what we got, or more specifically if there was anything for him, and when there wasn't he asked the mailman, "Why do you give out junk?"

Classic. Those two are going in the scrapbook for sure.

License to Drive

2009-02-02T19:02:00.000-08:00

This car just showed up on our front lawn over a week ago. We figured someone else on the block owned it and "parked" it at our place to deal with some catastrophe, common when children are involved. But it sat there... and sat there... and sat there. So I inquired with the other moms and dads on the block and no one claimed it.

The rule "finders, keepers" in now in effect. :)

Seeing as it was a BEAUTIFUL day here in Portland, Talya took her new ride for a spin. She looked like an old pro navigating this classic. Bet you've never met a 14 month old with a license to drive!?! Until now.

Rubbin' and a Dubbin'

2009-01-27T17:56:00.000-08:00

Those two just love taking baths together. I am sure in the not-to-distant future Matthew will outgrow this, but for now I'm enjoying every minute. How could I not when I've got them?

Best Friends Forever

2009-01-27T17:52:00.001-08:00

My best friend Meagan and I in about 7th grade. Hey... no laughing. It was my grunge phase. I did live in the Pacific Northwest - I have an excuse! :)

All these years later, I love you just the same Megs!

story of a blue sweater, cherished

2009-01-23T12:33:00.000-08:00

My mom is a "saver." I use the word "saver" purposefully, because to call her a pack rat or hoarder would be incorrect. She does however, and always has, saved important memorabilia and such for nostalgic reasons. I can't remember a time where I thought this habit of hers was silly or pointless. My personality, much like my mom's, values tradition and sentimentality of this sort, so I always knew that one day I'd be so grateful that she packed these things away for me, "for when you get older," she'd say.

Apparently I'm older now (shocking) and each time I visit my mom I receive a box of things that represent my childhood; clothing and shoes, artwork and school papers, pictures, all sorts of things. I love being able to share these things with my family, giving them a glimpse, a clearer picture, of who I was as a child. Matthew is beginning to understand that I was a kid once too, that I had best friends in preschool, and even fit into baby clothes once. (again, shocking!)

There is something so special about seeing my little girl wearing the same clothes that I once wore. At her first birthday, Natalya donned a dress that my mom sewed for me and shoes that I once wore. In the pictures above, Natalya is wearing a sweater that my grandma knitted for me. So much love has been invested in these garments. Not only when they were made, but also in the fact that my mom saved them for so long, waiting and knowing that one day they would be passed on, worn, and loved again when I pack them away and save them for my children.

Dancing Queen

2009-01-21T17:52:00.000-08:00

My grandma gave us a keyboard for Christmas and it is getting so much use. I'm learning to play "Entertainer," Carlos loves playing with the Sound FX and putting recordings on top of each other, and Matthew and Talya love banging around and listening to the pre-recorded songs. Actually, we play with it so much I've left it upstairs on the ottoman instead of taking it downstairs to put it on a stand.

We were all amazed at how Talya plays that keyboard like she has been doing it all of her life. She even sounds good on occasion... :) But most of all, it is super fun to watch her groove and play along to her favorite songs. Here is a video of her doing just that. ENJOY

Creative Play

2009-01-19T22:09:00.000-08:00

Matthew and I went to JoAnn's this weekend and bought a ton of silly stuff for projects. Matthew is a true son of mine - his ears perk up at the word "project" just like mine. Go here to see what we did...

My babies... and another photography challenge

2009-01-15T20:55:00.001-08:00

Silly Matthew - I wouldn't have posted this photo if his nose wasn't clear and his eyes didn't look so breathtaking

The smile that'll melt even the coldest of hearts

Talya singing as she does the "Booty Dance" - you have to see it - HILARIOUS

Why is my font underlining itself? So annoying. This was happening to me a couple of weeks ago when I was trying to post the Christmas photos. URG!

One of my goals for 2009 is to take 10,000 photos during the year. And another is to post 200 times on the family blog. It has kind of taken a back seat as my art blog takes off. Anyhoo, I figure the two go hand in hand. And a bonus: the grandparents will be happy to see more pics of the kids.

Enough already. I can't stand this underlining. I've got to figure out how to stop this madness! ;-)

Christmas 2008

2009-01-07T13:50:00.000-08:00

Each year Matthew gets to open one present on Christmas Eve Day - this year he (referring to Matthew, although Carlos really got it for himself) got Guitar Hero

Because of the Winter Storm, we were so worried that my family wouldn't be able to make it. Luckily they did to Talya's delight. That girl sure loves her Gramma!

Growing up one of my favorite Christmas traditions was reading The Night Before Christmas before bed. I passed the tradition on to my kids.

It looks as though Matthew and Natalya appreciate the yearly ritual as much as I did.

The Spread - OMG there were SOOO MANY presents. A Christmas Eve home with family gathered, traditions continued, tree lights on and presents delivered is magical.

Writing the Santa Letter. I have every Santa letter since Matthew was born, just as my mommy has all the Santa letters from my sister and I.

I love this photo of Carlos. Seldom do I capture an authentic smile from him.

Gramma Mo wincing after bonking Talya's head on the corner of the TV

Jenni Mo modeling the prayer shawl gifted by Grandma Sam

(she probably won't like this pic, but I love it)

I've been having a heck of a time getting the post together. The photos won't upload, the text is turning blue and underlining itself, the screen is scolling down for no reason. So I am going to post as is, and edit it later when I have more patience. So there's more to come....

Talya's First Birthday Collage

2008-12-23T18:22:00.001-08:00

I am trying to figure out Photoshop C3. An amazing program, but totally useless if you don't know what you're doing (like me!) I have many more pictures to collage from Talya's party... and I will get to it... hopefully before she turns two. The Universe told me to cut myself some slack... so... that is precisely what I am doing!

A different kind of sweet

2008-12-23T12:09:00.000-08:00

With Christmas cookies and sugar plums dancing in my head, I thought it would be unfair to leave out my other favorite sweet... TALYA!

She melts my heart!

Cookies!

2008-12-23T12:03:00.001-08:00

Matthew and I made cookies yesterday. We sprinkled some and frosted some. It was a blast. Matthew was so in the spirit of things that he rubbed flour all over the front of his shirt... for good measure, I suppose. Would you believe me if I told you that they cookies are gone? That's right... Santa might be SOL... if it weren't for a certain Mommy who knows that her son is a cookie monster and saved some ingredients for a batch to be made on xmas eve...

More snow!

2008-12-23T06:54:00.000-08:00

MORE...

AND MORE SNOW!!!

All this snow is absolutely bizarre! BIZARRE! We got totally dumped on. It's over two feet on flat ground and that's nothing to say about the drifts. I have never seen so much snow in my life. I am just hoping that we don't get anymore so that the fam can make it for Christmas. Since it hasn't snowed since about 5pm yesterday and it's already 30 degrees at 7:00am today, my hopes are high. Please everyone... pray that the roads are good enough from my mom, grandma, sister, and sister's boyfriend to come on Wednesday...

Tai Kwon-Do Tournament

2008-12-18T21:07:00.001-08:00

Matthew went to his first Tai Kwon-Do Tournament on Saturday and finished wonderfully. He placed 1st in hand breaking, 4th in foot breaking, and 2nd in Movement and Body Position. I was so impressed with how comfortably he carried himself and how respectful he was of the process. His favorite medal was the 2nd place because it spun in the middle. Gotta love the kiddos. Somehow their priorities are always in the right place!

Once he attends his last class on Friday, Matthew will earn a red stripe on his belt. He is as proud of himself as I am of him.

Winter Storm 2008 Videos

2008-12-16T14:58:00.000-08:00

Winter Storm 2008

2008-12-16T14:42:00.000-08:00

Snow in December... in Portland!?! Yep, that's right. We got almost three inches on our property. It was so dry and cold we weren't able to make a snowman but we did build a snowpile to jump on and slide down. For added excitement, the wind blew down a 30 foot tree in our backyard. Scary... yes... but we made the best of it. The dog used it as a frisbee-catching obstacle course and we are using the wood for the fire. All's well that ends well.

Matthew and Talya watching the first flakes fall

Snowball fight!

I opted out of this part! Sometimes it pays to be behind the camera

Silly boy... and handsome too

Our fallen tree. I can't believe it snapped right at the base. Amazing too that it didn't crush that rickety shed.

Thanksgiving 2008

2008-12-13T13:39:00.000-08:00

Matthew and Vinny playing go fish

Talya thought the ringing cell phone was the funniest thing - She mouthed my sisters phone so much that it took two days from her phone to work again! The joys of being an Aunt!

Remember when I said Talya loves dog and cat food... Well... my mom and I were wondering where Talya was and I found her in my sister's room, with the door closed, in the dark, shoving handfuls of cat food in her mouth. I wish I would have gotten a picture of her face when I found her. She was so proud of her self. If you look, you'll see the cat watching Talya from under the bed.

Each of us made a turkey place card.

Carlos made Antipasto - an Italian Thanksgiving tradition

What a wonderful Thanksgiving we had this year! My grandma, mom, sister, sister's boyfriend, Carlos, Matthew, Natalya, and I filled my mom's house with love and gratitude to share a great meal and great memories. It was pretty amazing that it never felt crowded. All the pieces of the family puzzle fit together nicely. Honestly, it was the best Thanksgiving I can remember.

Tai Kwon-Do

2008-12-08T18:37:00.000-08:00

Matthew is just finishing his first tai kwon do classes. As part of the final class the students trained to break a board. I couldn't even believe that my boy broke a board... in THREE pieces.

Once again, this video is horizontal. I figured out how to rotate it on my camera and it downloaded to the computer horizontal. Urg! Also, the sound is low because parents aren't allowed to get close to the students and distract them.

Matthew will be attending his first Tai Kwon-Do competition this Saturday to possibly earn a golden medal. Stay tuned...

Natalya's 1st Birthday

2008-11-30T17:46:00.001-08:00

I can hardly believe that my baby girl is 1! This year has flown by, filled with joy beyond expectation or expression. Natalya lights up the world in her path. I am so grateful to be her mommy.

My friend Meagan and I had her first birthday party on Saturday afternoon and it was a wonderful time. She was the belle of the ball and enjoyed every minute of it. I'll post more pictures from the party after my girlfriends email me what photos they took, seeing that my camera ran out of battery one third of the way through the party. For now.....

FIFTEEN FUN FACTS ABOUT NATALYA

Natalya loves dog and cat food.
Natalya adores babies - doll babies, actual babies, pictures of babies, the word "babies."
Natalya likes flipping the light switch to turn off the lights...
And when she does, she claps for herself and says, "Yay!!!"
Natalya picks up everything so lovingly and puts it in her mouth with reverence.
Natalya loves watching her brother jump up and down...
Nothing makes her laugh harder.
Natalya has three teeth and two more just under the surface of her gums.
Natalya likes to comb her own hair.
Natalya has a sixth sense for knowing when the bathroom door is open...
And is dying for the chance to splash in the toilet.
Natalya gives the best open mouth kisses.
Natalya loves her Gramma Mo.
Natalya has an absolutely infectious laugh.
Natalya is loved, so completely and utterly, head-over-heels, loved by everyone who knows her.

Talya's 1st Ponytail

2008-11-17T11:13:00.001-08:00

Check out Talya's first ponytail... TOO CUTE!!

Laughing Sissy

2008-11-11T17:21:00.000-08:00

I have been creating and crafting my tushy off. In a good way, of course. See what I've been doing here. I hope you all enjoy this video. I was trying SOOOO hard not to laugh when I was recording, but I wasn't 100% successful. I couldn't help it. This little girl sure loves her brother.

OK, I'm off to eat my Slow Cooker Chicken Paella. Mmmm... The gorgeous smell is wafting (yes, I did say wafting) down the stairs. It is a Weight Watchers recipe.

Oops - The video just finished processing and I realized that I needed to rotate it before uploading. Oh well, it didn't lose any hilarity. I have tears in my eyes right now from laughing so hard. Now you see what a charmed life I lead. I am so blessed!

BTW - I will post a link to the Paella recipe tomorrow. I want to get this post up before my mommy leaves work. Toodles...

Photographing Talya - Day 5

2008-11-07T20:50:00.001-08:00

She loves being upside down and tickled simultaneously!

Photographing Talya - Day 4

2008-11-06T20:24:00.000-08:00

Talya had so much fun during this naked photo shoot. I don't let her run around naked nearly enough! She sat for 15 minutes slapping her leg and enjoying the sound that it made. What a blast - now I'm having to think outside of my normal picture taking patterns.

BTW- In the last picture you can see how long her hair is getting. I am obsessed with her thick, long, beautiful hair. :)

Love this View

2008-11-04T19:16:00.001-08:00

This is what I saw looking out my living room window this morning. There is nothing better than fall leaves, bright yellow, set against the grumbling, gray Portland sky. Just ignore the basketball hoop and street light, please. It was a fleeting moment and I wanted to capture it while I could. ;-)

Photographing Talya - Day 3

2008-11-04T19:00:00.000-08:00

So I missed a day... nobody's perfect. That's what I'm telling myself. I didn't stop taking pictures though. Here's what I came up with over the last two days.

I've been playing with ISO speed and like that these pictures blurred a little. It suits the mood of the photos nicely. Plus, it's one of two settings that I can manually change on my point and click, the other being OEV and I don't know what OEV is or does and haven't taken the time to look it up on the web. Instead I'm comparing Digital SLR's...

This picture was captured while I was recording video on my camera and although it's dark, I like that the composition is different from what I normally do.

Matthew took this picture of us. Considering he's four years old, I think he took a great picture. Also, I don't have many pictures of Talya and me because I'm usually the one behind the camera.

Check Out my Other Blog

2008-11-03T06:38:00.000-08:00

A few weeks ago, I told you about a book that I am reading, "The Artist's Way" by Julia Cameron. This book walks the reader through a specific process to enhance and "unblock" their creativity. I've been working with elements of the book for over two months now. A few weeks back, I started a Meetup at my home to work through the twelve-week process in a group. I was soooo nervous to get this going myself but am so glad that I did. I have meet great people and artists as a result and am so thankful to have support while engaging in this journey.

So... as a way to document the process and have a way to communicate with the group in between meetups, I started a blog, Living the Artist's Way. I've been a bit reluctant to post the link. Thus far, working through the process has been tumultuous. I've experienced some low, lows and some high, highs. Documenting these emotions feels risky to me and that fear grows when I think of you, my friends and family, reading them. I fear that you'll think I'm crazy or manic depressive or something else completely horrible. I feel like I shouldn't share these feelings and emotions with the people I love because I don't anyone to worry. Somehow, it seems more permanent, when the journey is actually ever-changing.

This morning, however, it occurred to me that I could be missing out on support and encouragement by not sharing these experiences with you all. And nothing feels better or is more reassuring that wishes for happiness and success from the people I love.

I hope you'll check out the blog and comment to your hearts content. I am lucky to have you all in my life and I believe that with your support and understanding, this process will help me become a better, happier, and more fulfilled person. Thanks guys- I love you all.

Photographing Talya - Day 2

2008-11-02T19:21:00.001-08:00

I didn't do much picture taking today. At any rate, this is Talya playing peek-a-boo with the living room curtains. It is one of her favorite things to do. I love how the profile captures her chubby little cheeks. My, they are soft! I had to use the flash because of poor light. We are currently looking for an arc lamp. I'm totally in love with them. But I digress. I don't like using flash. It seems to distort the essence of the subject being photographed. Can you tell I've been reading my photography book! ;-) More tomorrow...

Photographing Talya - Day 1

2008-11-01T18:55:00.001-07:00

Morning

OK- that's better. GOOD morning!

Get me out of this highchair... I'm done eating.

More pictures, Mom!?!

I must admit... I do looking dashing in this wig!

My first day of Assignment: Photographing Talya was a joy. Yet I often felt that my photography abilities failed to do my beautiful Talya justice. To remedy this I went to the public library and checked out a book, "The Idiot's Guide to Digital Photography." Fitting, I thought. I will be so pleased if my pictures improve throughout the course of this assignment.

Talya was here...

2008-11-01T18:52:00.001-07:00

...and she's discovered toilet paper!

For Lilly Rose

2008-10-31T06:26:00.000-07:00

A friend brought to my attention that I need to put more pictures of Natalya Shea on the blog. Actually, I've heard this request before. So I went through iPhoto to find the best of the best. Doing this I noticed that the Matthew:Talya picture ratio is way out of whack. Matthew is much easier to photograph since he'll pose and hold still (well, that might be a stretch) but that is no excuse. To remedy this, I'm going to post atleast one picture of Talya each day for the next week. This will entail many photo sessions that I'll surely enjoy.

For now, here are some goodies of my baby girl. The above pictures are in chronological order, beginning on August 17th, and evidenced by the length of her hair. ;-) She is such a wonderful, happy baby. Her personality is complex and she is always studying EVERYTHING. Yesterday was her 11 month birthday. I can't believe how fast it has gone. I try to enjoy every moment and I know that this extensive photography "assignment" will help with that. Thanks Lilly Rose!